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Species Profile

Kissing Gourami

Helostoma temminckii

Not a kiss-it's a contest.
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Kissing Gourami

At a Glance

Wild Species
Also Known As Kissing fish, Kissers, Lip‑locking fish
Diet Omnivore
Activity Diurnal+
Lifespan 7 years
Status Least Concern
Did You Know?

Can reach ~30 cm total length (much larger than most "community" aquarium fish).

Scientific Classification

A Southeast Asian freshwater labyrinth fish known for its characteristic mouth-to-mouth pushing behavior (often mistaken for ‘kissing’), and for a specialized protrusible mouth used to graze algae and biofilm from surfaces. Common in the aquarium trade; wild types are typically greenish-gray while domesticated strains may be pink (leucistic).

Kingdom
Animalia
Phylum
Chordata
Class
Actinopterygii
Order
Anabantiformes
Family
Helostomatidae
Genus
Helostoma
Species
temminckii

Distinguishing Features

  • Distinct thick, protrusible lips and small mouth adapted for scraping surfaces
  • Labyrinth organ (air-breathing capability), typical of many anabantoids
  • Laterally compressed body; adults commonly ~15–30 cm depending on conditions
  • Behavioral ‘kissing’ (mouth-locking) used in dominance/territorial interactions rather than courtship

Physical Measurements

Length
8 in (6 in – 12 in)
Top Speed
7 mph
swimming

Appearance

Primary Colors
Secondary Colors
Skin Type Cycloid scales with a mucus-coated epidermis typical of freshwater gouramis; labyrinth organ enables facultative air-breathing at the surface.
Distinctive Features
  • Deep, laterally compressed body; long-based dorsal and anal fins extending toward caudal peduncle.
  • Highly protrusible, thick-lipped mouth adapted for scraping algae/biofilm from surfaces; lips often appear swollen.
  • Mouth-to-mouth pushing ('kissing') is primarily a dominance/territorial contest, not inherently courtship.
  • Facultative air-breather via labyrinth organ; frequently gulps air at the surface, especially in warm/low-oxygen water.
  • Maximum reported total length about 30 cm (FishBase); aquarium specimens commonly smaller depending on conditions.
  • Reported longevity commonly ~7-10 years in captivity; longer lifespans are occasionally reported under optimal care (trade literature).
  • Native to Southeast Asian floodplains, swamps, and slow waters; typically associated with vegetated, low-flow habitats.

Did You Know?

Can reach ~30 cm total length (much larger than most "community" aquarium fish).

The famous "kiss" is usually a dominance/territorial contest-opponents press mouths and push.

Has a labyrinth organ, letting it gulp air at the surface and use atmospheric oxygen in low-oxygen swamps.

Uses a highly protrusible mouth and toothy lips to rasp algae/biofilm from plants, wood, and glass.

Wild fish are typically greenish-gray; popular aquarium strains include pink/leucistic morphs.

Often sold small, but its adult size and grazing habit make it better suited to large aquaria.

Described scientifically as Helostoma temminckii by Cuvier (1829); the species name honors Coenraad J. Temminck.

Unique Adaptations

  • Labyrinth organ (air-breathing): enables survival in oxygen-poor floodplains, swamps, and warm stagnant waters typical of Southeast Asian lowlands.
  • Protrusible, highly mobile mouth with specialized lips: forms a strong seal against surfaces to rasp and suction-feed on algae and biofilm.
  • Body form suited to vegetation-rich waters: laterally compressed shape helps maneuver through dense aquatic plants common in floodplain habitats.
  • Dietary flexibility: can shift between grazing, small invertebrates, and plant material-useful in seasonal habitats where food availability changes.

Interesting Behaviors

  • Mouth-to-mouth pushing ("kissing"): ritualized fighting where two fish lock lips and try to shove the other away; can establish hierarchy and access to space/food.
  • Surface air-gulping: regularly rises to the surface to breathe air via the labyrinth organ, especially in warm, stagnant, low-oxygen water.
  • Periphyton grazing: repeatedly presses its protrusible lips to hard surfaces and scrapes algae and surface biofilm in a steady "mowing" pattern.
  • Floodplain foraging: in wet seasons, exploits inundated vegetation and shallow margins; in dry seasons, persists in slower waters with abundant plant cover.
  • Schooling/loose aggregations: juveniles are often more social, while larger adults may become more territorial in confined spaces (e.g., aquaria).

Cultural Significance

In Southeast Asia, Helostoma temminckii (kissing gourami) is kept as an aquarium fish and eaten locally from floodplains and wetlands. Pink (leucistic) forms are popular worldwide; their "kissing" display is seen as love but is really a contest.

Myths & Legends

Modern aquarium folklore (late 20th-21st century) treats the kissing gourami as a symbol of romance-pairs "kissing" are sometimes interpreted as affection and used in casual love-themed storytelling, even though aquarists traditionally recognized it as sparring.

Name-legend in hobby culture: pet-shop and home-aquarium narratives often claim the fish "kisses" owners' fingers or tankmates out of friendliness; this story persists as an origin tale for its popularity in home aquaria.

Eponym story (historical naming tradition): the species epithet temminckii memorializes Dutch naturalist Coenraad Jacob Temminck-part of a long scientific custom that hobbyists sometimes recount as a 'named-for-a-naturalist' origin story when explaining the fish's formal identity.

Conservation Status

LC Least Concern

Widespread and abundant in the wild.

Population Unknown

Life Cycle

Birth 5000 frys
Lifespan 7 years

Lifespan

In the Wild
5–15 years
In Captivity
7–20 years

Reproduction

Mating System Promiscuity
Social Structure Transient
Breeding Pattern Transient
Fertilization Broadcast Spawning
Birth Type Broadcast_spawning

Spawning involves a brief surface "embrace" where the female releases roughly 1,000-10,000 buoyant eggs that are externally fertilized and float/drift. No nest is built and neither sex provides parental care, enabling repeated mating with multiple partners.

Behavior & Ecology

Social Shoal Group: 10
Activity Diurnal, Crepuscular
Diet Omnivore Periphyton (algae-rich biofilm) grazed from submerged surfaces using the specialized protrusible mouth

Temperament

Typically non-predatory grazer; often peaceful with other species but can be assertive in confined space.
Intraspecific aggression is common: mouth-to-mouth pushing is ritualized combat, not courtship.
Dominance contests involve jaw-locking/pushing; stronger individual displaces weaker from food or area.
Breeding adults (especially males) may become territorial around spawning site/vegetation.
Labyrinth fish air-breathing allows persistence in warm, low-oxygen habitats; does not require social coordination.
Max reported length 30 cm total length; longevity reported 7 years (FishBase: Helostoma temminckii).

Communication

Tactile signaling via mouth-locking/pushing and body-to-body shoving during dominance contests.
Visual displays: lateral presentation, fin erection, close following/chasing to assert dominance or court.
Chemical cues likely involved in reproductive readiness and individual recognition Common in anabantoids
Hydrodynamic cues via lateral line during close-range interactions in turbid/vegetated water.

Habitat

Biomes:
Freshwater Wetland Tropical Rainforest Tropical Dry Forest
Terrain:
Riverine Plains Valley Muddy
Elevation: Up to 656 ft 2 in

Ecological Role

Periphyton grazer and opportunistic zooplanktivore/benthic-invertebrate feeder in Southeast Asian freshwater wetlands and slow-flowing waters

limits periphyton/algal buildup on submerged surfaces and macrophytes (top-down control of biofilm) links primary production (algae/biofilm) to higher trophic levels by converting periphyton into fish biomass nutrient recycling via grazing and excretion, helping redistribute nitrogen and phosphorus within vegetated littoral zones contributes to energy transfer across benthic (periphyton) and pelagic (zooplankton) food webs through flexible feeding

Diet Details

Main Prey:
Zooplankton Insect larvae Small crustaceans Oligochaete worms and other small benthic invertebrates
Other Foods:
Periphyton Algae Aquatic macrophyte Fine organic particles associated with biofilm

Human Interaction

Domestication Status

Semi domesticated

Helostoma temminckii is a Southeast Asian freshwater fish native to the Mekong and Chao Phraya basins and the Malay Peninsula, Borneo, Sumatra and Java. Widely captive-bred for aquariums (including leucistic/pink strains) and for regional food ponds, it reaches ~30 cm, lives ~7 years, and is best seen as semi-domesticated. Family Helostomatidae shows similar uses.

Danger Level

Low
  • Minor bites/pinches or skin abrasions from handling a large individual; more commonly fin-nipping/aggression toward tankmates (the mouth-to-mouth "kissing" is typically a dominance/ritualized pushing contest, not affection).
  • Standard aquarium-associated zoonotic risk if wounds are exposed to tank water (e.g., opportunistic infections such as Mycobacterium marinum), mitigated by hygiene and gloves when handling fish/tank maintenance.

As a Pet

Suitable as Pet

Legality: Generally legal in the aquarium trade in many countries/states/provinces. Restrictions may apply where nonnative fish introductions are regulated (e.g., some jurisdictions restrict import/possession/release of potentially invasive freshwater fishes). Always verify local fish and wildlife regulations; never release to the wild.

Care Level: Moderate

Purchase Cost: $5 - $40
Lifetime Cost: $800 - $3,500

Economic Value

Uses:
Ornamental aquarium trade Aquaculture / food fish Local capture fisheries Biological grazing of algae/biofilm (incidental use in ponds/aquaria)
Products:
  • live ornamental fish (wild-type and captive-bred leucistic/pink strains)
  • fresh/chilled whole fish for consumption in parts of Southeast Asia
  • pond-cultured fish stocked for food production

Relationships

Predators 5

Striped snakehead Channa striata
Giant snakehead Channa micropeltes
Asian redtail catfish Hemibagrus wyckioides
Wallago catfish Wallago attu
Purple heron Ardea purpurea

Related Species 3

Giant gourami Osphronemus goramy Shared Order
Three-spot gourami Trichopodus trichopterus Shared Order
Honey gourami Trichogaster chuna Shared Order

Ecological Equivalents 4

Animals that fill a similar ecological role in their ecosystem

Giant gourami Osphronemus goramy Overlaps in lowland Southeast Asian freshwater habitats and is an omnivorous grazer/plant-feeder; both species use well-oxygenated surface water via the labyrinth organ (both are Anabantiformes). Giant gourami attains much larger size (commonly >45 cm total length) but occupies a similar 'large-bodied, slow-water omnivore' niche.
Three-spot gourami Trichopodus trichopterus Shares still/slow vegetated waters (floodplains, canals, swamps) and air-breathing behavior via the labyrinth organ; both are surface-tolerant fishes that exploit warm, often low-oxygen habitats.
Siamese algae eater Crossocheilus oblongus Plays a similar functional role as a periphyton and biofilm grazer on hard surfaces. Although taxonomically distinct (a cyprinid), it overlaps in exploiting attached algae and biofilm in freshwater systems.
Chinese algae eater Gyrinocheilus aymonieri Comparable niche as a substrate-scraping grazer of algae and biofilm; both use specialized mouths to feed from surfaces. The kissing gourami uses a highly protrusible mouth for grazing.

Quick Take

  • The kissing gourami's signature "kiss" isn't what it looks like, and the real reason behind the behavior might change how you think about keeping them together. See the real reason →
  • This fish can survive where most others suffocate, and it comes down to one unusual organ most people have never heard of. Discover the labyrinth organ →
  • One color variety of the kissing gourami looks natural but absolutely isn't, and the story behind it involves deliberate human intervention. How the pink variety emerged →
  • An extra joint hidden in its jaw gives the kissing gourami a feeding advantage no other gourami species has, and this same feature is also responsible for its iconic look. Explore the jaw joint →

The kissing gourami is one of the most distinct species in the gourami family. The puckered mouth of this species is a distinctive feature that has made it a popular pet among aquarists. The kissing gourami is both a bottom feeder and a filter feeder, thanks to specially developed mouthparts. Although most people keep it for its aesthetic value, it may also serve as food in Asia.

An informative chart showing two gourami fish with puckered lips touching, alongside sections detailing their aggressive behavior, habitat, and scientific classification.
It looks like a romantic gesture, but for this fish, a pucker is a declaration of war. © A-Z Animals

5 Kissing Gourami Facts

  • The kissing action of the kissing gourami is not a romantic gesture.
  • Even though it is a single species, it has two different colors.
  • The fish displays aggressive behavior.
  • It is the only species in the Helostoma genus to have an extra joint in its jaw.
  • Its eggs hatch after one to two days of fertilization.

Classification and Scientific Name

The scientific name of the kissing gourami is Helostoma temminckii. It is a tropical freshwater fish that belongs to the Actinopterygii class and the Helostomatidae family. Fish in the Helostomatidae family and others of Asian origin are also called gourami. However, they’re found in aquariums as well. 

The specific name of this fish is a reference to a famous Dutch zoologist, Coenraad Jacob Temminck. The way the fish moves its distinctive lips resembles a kiss, which earned it its common name, the kissing gourami. It is also called the “kisser fish” or simply the “kisser.”

Appearance

Kissing Gourami

The puckered mouth of this species is a distinctive feature that has made it a popular pet among aquarists.

The most intriguing body part of the kissing gourami is its forward-facing mouth with protruding lips. This feature makes it different from other gourami species with upward-facing mouths. The lips contain rows of fine, horny teeth. Artificially bred species have more pronounced lips and smaller bodies. They are known as balloon-kissing gourami.

Like all gouramis, the kissing gourami is flat and oval-shaped. It also possesses caudal, pectoral, anal, and long dorsal fins. The pectoral fins are longer than usual, and the caudal fins have a more concave shape. The fish has visible scales on its head and its body. Male and female kissing gouramis are so similar that it is difficult to distinguish between them physically. The total body length of the species falls between 6.69 and 11.81 inches. The kissing gourami also has well-developed gill rakers. 

The kissing gourami comes in two color varieties — the green-to-gray with dark brown fins, and the pink with transparent fins. While the first variant occurs naturally, the other is a product of genetic modification to give it a pinkish color.  

The presence of an extra joint in the fish’s mouth is why it has such a stunning look. Apart from the unique look, the jaw also gives the kissing fish a feeding advantage. It is why kissing gouramis can extract nutrients from substrates — something other gourami species cannot do.  

Behavior

They are moderately aggressive and are top to middle-water dwellers. They may intentionally ram into other fish and strip them of their slime coat — and they do this more frequently in captivity.  

The kissing gourami has a complex inner ear. This characteristic makes communication among the species possible. A special structure in the ear aids the hearing of the fish. To communicate with others, the fish grinds its teeth.

The fish feeds unusually due to the protruded nature of their mouth. Since the teeth are on the lips, it has to press its lips against a feeding surface. This makes it seem like the gourami is “kissing” the surface.  

The “kiss” is actually an aggressive behavior in which the fish battle with their mouths. Researchers are yet to come up with a concrete reason why these species exhibit kissing behavior. The common belief is that the fish act that way to establish some sort of territory dominance among the males.

Distribution, Population, and Habitat     

The number of kissing gouramis is still bountiful, even though they are greatly fished out of their natural habitat. On the IUCN, it is listed under Least Concern. The population of the Helostoma temminckii is not threatened. There is a high number of kissing gourami fish farms since it is a popular aquarium fish (and food for some people). The population status of the species is considered stable, with no major widespread threats reported.

Typically, kissing gouramis are found in shallow tropical freshwater habitats. The well-vegetated, slow-moving waters provide a perfect environment for the fish to feed. They can easily reach and eat insects, plants, and benthic algae. Unlike other fish species, they can also use their specially structured mouth to eat algae off stones, 

This fish species prefers shallow water because they can breathe in oxygen directly from the surface. The gills cannot provide the fish with adequate oxygen. To solve that, it has a modified organ similar to the lungs (labyrinth). The organ allows the fish to breathe in oxygen from the air without difficulty.

Evolution and History

Kissing gourami belongs to the Actinopterygii class (ray-finned fish). This group of fish has been in existence for over 400 million years after their emergence during the Early Devonian Period. Modern bony fish (teleosts) first appeared about 200 million years ago. Scientists believed that they evolved from an order of fish known as the Holosteans, which is now extinct. Teleosts reached their full evolutionary diversity about 50 million years ago, evolving into diverse suborders and families. 

The kissing gourami is believed to have evolved on the Indonesian Island of Java. However, it has been introduced to other locations worldwide. In the past, kissing gouramis were primarily hunted for food because of their fairly large size. As the years went by, the species got more attention as a result of their distinctive puckered mouth. Humans started breeding the kisser in aquariums, and by 1950, they were a major highlight of many commercial aquariums. 

Further modifications were made to increase its artistic value. The pink variety became more popular due to its visual appeal and was bred selectively in large quantities. Both the green and pink varieties are available in mass quantities across many states.

Predators and Threats

Kissing gourami is an omnivorous species. Humans primarily prey on the kisser for food and its aesthetic value and keep it in captivity. The kissing fish is one of the most popular aquarium fish. However, several diseases that affect aquarium species also threaten the existence of fish. 

What Does the Kissing Gourami Eat?

The kisser feeds on a variety of food, including algae, aquatic plants, insects, plankton, and other microorganisms. This gourami has well-adapted mouthparts for bottom feeding. It uses its gill rakers to filter in nutrients and feed on surfaces that other species cannot access. 

What Eats the Kissing Gourami?

Humans are the major predators of this fish species. Gourami is a delicacy in South Asia. However, more people are interested in its aesthetic properties, so they keep the kissing gourami as pets and tend to them in aquariums.  

Reproduction, Babies, and Lifespan

The typical lifespan of the kissing gourami is five to seven years. The fish becomes sexually mature when it is around three years old. The species reproduces once a year in the Monsoon season. This season usually falls between May and October in Thailand. The reproduction period starts with a process called spawning. During spawning, male and female kissing gourami release sperm and eggs into the water for external fertilization. The female kissing gourami starts the process by laying the eggs underneath water vegetation, followed by the male. 

The eggs can be up to 1,000 or more. They are small, round, and smooth, with an oily covering that keeps them afloat till they get attached to vegetation. The eggs hatch a day (or two) after fertilization. After birth, the young fish (fry) are totally independent.

Kissing Gourami in Fishing and Cooking

Commercial breeders cultivate the fish in Thailand, Singapore, and other parts of Asia. Anglers also fish for them in the wild. Fish dog biscuits, bread crusts, and other floating food pellets are great baits for the kissing gourami. Experts use the same method used for carp fishing to catch the kisser. 

Kissing gourami can be baked, steamed, boiled, and pan-fried. In Thailand, the fish is enjoyed as a delicious treat deep-fried with pepper or with chili sauce. Southeast Asians value gourami as a major part of their cuisine because of its thick flesh, unique texture, and great taste. Generally, fried gourami has a higher fat content compared to other methods of cooking. 

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Sources

  1. Wikipedia / Accessed January 16, 2023
  2. Animal Diversity / Accessed January 16, 2023
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Kissing Gourami FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions)

Apart from Java, which is their origin, kissing gouramis are found in Malaysia, Cambodia, Vietnam, Thailand, Florida, and Singapore. The kisser fish have been introduced outside Asia and are now found in aquariums all over the world, even in regions where they’re absent in the wild.